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It’s October, which means that it’s Breast Cancer Awareness month. Last year, on the blog, I promised to donate a dollar for every unique comment on my cancer post.

This year, I’m doing it again.

I saw, on twitter, and elsewhere criticisms of similar campaigns, asking why it’s necessary to ask for comments: why not just donate?

To be clear, I do donate. I give my dollars and my time to the work of various cancer and breast cancer organizations. In fact, I’m running again in May, as Team Captain, for Komen’s Race for the Cure in honor of my grandmother (you can make a tax deductible contribution here).

This is a cause that I am passionate about. And I do *get* the criticisms about making it a spectacle. But here’s why I do it: I want to make a spectacle. I want to cause a commotion. I want you to think about cancer.

Last year, I was particularly struck by this an article written by Karen Heller of the Inquirer, critical of the whole Pink for October campaign. I wrote her a letter in response, which I’m posting here (edited for brevity):

I read your column each week and often agree with your observations about children, commercialism and culture.  However, this week, I feel compelled to write to you because I think  you missed the mark in your article on breast cancer.

My grandmother died of breast cancer.  You’re right in saying that it is not a pretty disease.  My grandmother’s cancer spread to her lungs.  I watched her die.  Literally.  My mother and I were with my grandmother in her house when she took her last breath.  It was a horrible, terrible way to die. 

You are not the first person that I have heard criticize the "pinking" of October.  I’ve heard it a lot, and I respectfully disagree.  Is it commercial?  Of course it is.  This is, after all, America, and if a capitalist can find a way to make a buck no matter what the occasion, he or she will.  It has become "cool" to wear Lance Armstrong Foundation bracelets and AIDS ribbons.  At the end of the day, does that take away from the good that it does?  I don’t think so.  …I don’t think that you can be too aware.  And, despite your statements in your column, I do think it promotes awareness. 

Every time that I see my pink ribbon, I think about my grandmother… And then I think about the fact that more than 200,000 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer this year alone.  They are grandmothers, mothers, sisters, daughters, family friends…  As a woman and as a mother of three children, how can I not promote awareness of a detectable, and often curable, disease that affects women in such huge numbers?

So, at the end of the day, while I agree with you that there’s a whole lot of pink going on, I don’t think that’s a bad thing.  Awareness might mean that one more woman gets a mammogram, or asks the doctor what that lump is.  And it might save a life.  Isn’t that worth a little pink now and again?

With that in mind, here’s my little bit of pink on the blog today. Like last year, for October, in honor of my grandmother, I’m making a donation to Susan G. Komen For the Cure. I’ll donate $1 for every unique comment (meaning, not spam) on this post. You can just say hi, ask me a tax question, chat about tax policy or leave the name of someone close to you that was diagnosed with breast cancer – heck, you can even tell me how much you love the Phillies! (Actually, after the game last night, you can especially tell me how much you love the Phillies!)

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It’s my birthday, too, yeah. So, in honor of the day, in the tradition of bloggers everywhere, I present ten things you may not know about me…

1, I share a birthday with actress Jill Whelan. She and I have much in common: she starred in one of my favorite movies, Airplane!, and the wildly popular show, Love Boat, before moving to Philadelphia while I played the role of Snoopy in my junior high production of You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown before moving to Philadelphia. She, however, was never a tax attorney – ha!

2, At various times in my life, I wanted to be an actress, a teacher, a baseball player (which reminds me: Charlie Manuel, if you haven’t found a replacement for Lidge, I’m still available through October) and a lawyer. My dad is fond of relating the story of my telling people that I wanted to be a lawyer so that I could be rich and just write poetry. I clearly overestimated how much they pay lawyers – which is why I now just write tax haiku.

3, When people ask me what I do for a living now, I tell them I’m a tax attorney who also writes about tax (this may frighten them a little). If you think that’s confusing to grown-ups, think of my poor children: they often tell people that I drive a taxi.

4, My husband and I are both lawyers and yes, we met in law school. I didn’t care for him very much during our first year because I thought he was too sarcastic. If you read the blog very often and know my writing style, that should boggle your mind.

5, In law school, I swore I would never take a tax course, bar review or no bar review, because I thought it would be boring. There’s a lesson to be learned here – and it’s not to not listen to me.

6, The worst grade I ever got in law school was in tax – the first tax course I ever took. I was devastated and went to my professor in tears. I was already signed up for my IRS clerkship by the time I got my grade and wanted to quit. My professor convinced me to not quit. I completely attribute my being a tax geek today to my terrific law school tax profs.

7, I did a stint as a tax prof myself for a bit at Community College of Philadelphia. I taught Wills and Trusts. The great thing about growing up in a Southern family is that I didn’t really have to embellish any of my family for the hypos – although I did occasionally. For example, my dad does, in fact, have an entire room in our house dedicated to all things Coca-Cola – though as far as I know, none of the bottles contain flesh-eating bacteria. Again, as far as I know…

8, I have really fond memories of my childhood except for a few “incidents” involving my brothers and some strategically placed walkie-talkies (no, Rob and T, I haven’t forgotten). Some of my best memories revolve around my maternal grandmother who made a pretty mean vegetable soup. She died of cancer and I now run the Komen 5k in her memory (Team Joye). I’m running again in May – if you’re feeling charitable, you can make a donation. Make it by the end of the year and you can claim it as a tax deduction!

9, I now have three kids of my own – fortunately, my daughter’s invisible friend, Mary, has moved on (I did not claim her as a tax deduction, despite my father’s belief that I could). I have no idea what my kids will be when they grow up though I would not be surprised to see my middle child off Broadway (and I mean, off, off Broadway). My husband and I have always said that they can be anything they want except a stripper or a lawyer – and we’re willing to bend on stripper.

10, My other “baby” is taxgirl. I’ve been blogging for a number of years now (even before I bought taxgirl.com). Way back… As in back in the day when my mom didn’t even know what a blog was and my dad was just about my only reader. It’s been the most fun a tax geek can have (and still hold a job). I really do appreciate all of my readers for giving me inspiration and encouragement every.single.day. And thanks, of course, to Richard Hatch, for constantly giving me something to write about.

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On Sunday, I’ll be racing for the cure for breast cancer in honor of my grandmother.

I would love your support. You can donate any amount here. All deductions are completely tax deductible!

And if you’re in Philly, join my team! The more, the merrier!

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